Dating
Dating without the texting.
Zydeby is for people who want a real relationship and are tired of pen-pal dating. You're matched on where your life is going, not on a photo, and your first date is planned around something you'd both enjoy.
Free to join. Works in your browser and on iPhone.
Example screen. Stock photos, not members.
Built for dating that leads somewhere
Matched on the big things
Children, faith, where you want to live, money habits and how you'd run a home. Mark anything as a dealbreaker and you'll never be matched against it.
Your answers stay private
A match sees fit labels such as Great match on life goals, never the answers behind them. You choose up to three answers to share.
A private yes or no
Nobody learns that you passed. If you both want to meet, you see each other's expectations at the same moment.
First dates with something to do
Six date ideas picked from both your profiles: a dance lesson, a hot-sauce tasting, fruit picking, a planetarium show.
Romance only where it belongs
If you're married or partnered, the romance side of the app is off. Friends, groups and mentoring stay open.
How you were raised
A few questions about the parents who raised you. People are often drawn to what they grew up with, so it gently shapes romantic matches. Private, encrypted, and skippable.
Something real to talk about
Each of you brings one personal question to ask, and you make one small choice together. How it works
Better with every date
After each meeting, a short private review teaches the matching what really works for you.
How dating works
Set who you'd like to meet
Choose who you're interested in, an age range, and the metro area where you'll meet people.
Answer the dating sections
Commitment, life goals, family ahead, closeness and reassurance. Skip anything you'd rather not say.
Decide on your match
Super excited, worth meeting, not sure, or pass, plus what you're hoping for from the date.
Meet at the activity
The app combines your plans and gives you a way to find each other.
Questions
Is Zydeby for serious relationships?
Yes. Most members choosing romance are hoping for a long-term partner. You can also say you're simply open to seeing if there's a spark.
Can I filter by faith?
Yes. You can say how much faith matters and whether a partner should share it. Faith settings apply to romance only, never to friends.
Why can't I see their answers?
So nobody performs for a profile. You see how well you fit, topic by topic, and you each choose what to reveal.
Keep exploring
Your next first date could be one you'd actually enjoy.
Free to join, in your browser or on iPhone. Answer at your own pace, and skip anything with “Rather not say.”