The ideas behind it
Matched on where your life is going.
Two people who want different futures rarely last, however good the first impression. Zydeby starts with your goals: children, home, money, work, faith and how you want to spend your days.
Free to join. Works in your browser and on iPhone.
Example screen. Stock photos, not members.
What you're matched on
Life goals
What you most want to build, where you want to live, whether you want children and how many.
Money and lifestyle
How you spend, save and give. What feels normal to you, and what doesn't.
Work and schedule
Your hours, weekends, travel for work, and how you'd like that to change.
Personality and outlook
How you recharge, handle change and disagree.
Family
How you were raised, how close you are with family now, and the family you picture ahead.
Working together
How you plan, decide and handle a change of plans. It matters for every kind of match.
How matching on goals works
You answer, privately
Each answer has an importance: doesn't matter, somewhat, very, or dealbreaker. Anything can be skipped.
Dealbreakers filter first
Nobody who fails a dealbreaker on either side is ever matched with you.
Both sides are scored
A match has to fit what you want and what they want. One-sided matches don't count.
You see fit labels
Perfect match, Great match, Good match, Some differences, Big differences, or Still to discover, topic by topic.
Questions
Can my match see my answers?
No. They see fit labels by topic. After you both decide to meet, you each choose up to three answers to share.
What if I don't know my answer yet?
Choose Rather not say. That topic shows as Still to discover.
Do photos affect matching?
No. Photos never decide who you're matched with. Members use an avatar, or a verified photo if they've verified their ID.
Keep exploring
Your first match could be this week.
Free to join, in your browser or on iPhone. Answer at your own pace, and skip anything with “Rather not say.”