Safety
Meeting in person, with safety built in.
Meeting people should feel good, not risky. Zydeby confirms ages before anyone meets, keeps first meetings in public places, and has a person review every report.
Free to join. Works in your browser and on iPhone.
How we keep meetings safe
Adults only, confirmed
Members are 18 and older. Before your first meeting, you confirm your age with an ID check ($4.99). Verification
Verified photos come from ID
A photo marked verified is matched to an ID. Everyone else uses an avatar until they verify.
Public places
Every plan is an activity at a public venue, at a time you both chose.
Block anyone, quietly
Blocked members are never matched with you again, and they aren't told.
Report from anywhere
From any match, in the review after a meeting, or by tapping I feel unsafe on the day.
Serious reports act fast
Reports of threats, assault or someone under 18 pause the other account at once, until a person reviews it.
Privacy
Read the plain-language privacy summary.
Your answers are private
They're stored separately and never shown to anyone. Matches see fit labels and only the answers you choose to share.
We never sell your data
No ads and no data sales. We don't share your answers for AI training.
Delete any time
Settings, then Delete my account. It's permanent and immediate.
Questions
What should I do if I feel unsafe during a meeting?
Leave, and call 911 if you're in danger. Then tap I feel unsafe in the app so our team can follow up.
Will the other person know I reported them?
No. They're told only that their account is paused for review, if it is.
Do you run background checks?
They're optional. While deciding on a match, you can ask for one, and the other person chooses whether to get it. Cards show who's background-checked.
Can I see a photo before we meet?
You can ask for one while deciding. Verified photos come from ID and show the date they were taken.
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Safe, simple, in person.
Free to join, in your browser or on iPhone. Answer at your own pace, and skip anything with “Rather not say.”