The ideas behind it
No pressure, by design.
Meeting someone new should feel like a good plan, not a test. Every step of Zydeby is designed so nobody feels put on the spot.
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How we take the pressure off
Nobody knows if you pass
You decide privately. If either of you passes, the match simply ends and neither learns the other's choice.
Expectations up front
Each of you says what you're hoping for: have a fun time, make a new friend, share an interest, see if there's a spark. You see each other's before you meet.
A plan, not a performance
The activity is chosen and the details are settled before the day. You just show up.
Public places, set times
Every side-by-side is at a public venue, at a time you both picked.
Bring a friend
For friend matches, you can each bring a friend if you both want to.
Easy to change plans
Running late or can't make it? One tap tells your match. No awkward texts.
Questions
What if I don't feel a connection?
Enjoy the activity, then say so in your private review. Your match never sees it, and your next match learns from it.
Do I have to meet again?
Never. Plan another only if you both want to.
Keep exploring
Your first match could be this week.
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