Step by step
Decide privately. Reveal together.
Each of you decides alone. If you both want to meet, you see each other's expectations and shared answers at the same moment. If not, the match quietly ends.
Free to join. Works in your browser and on iPhone.
How it works
Read the card
Username, age, metro area, what they're hoping for, and fit labels by topic. A verified photo shows the date it was taken.
Ask for a photo or a background check
Optional. Asking gives you both three more days to decide, once per match.
Choose your response
Super excited, worth meeting, not sure, or pass.
Say what you're hoping for
Have a fun time, make a new friend, share an interest, see if there's a spark, or explore something more serious.
Pick up to three answers to share
The app suggests a few. They're only shown if you both decide to meet.
The reveal
When both decisions are in, you each see the other's expectations and shares at once.
Questions
Will they know if I passed?
No. If either of you passes, the match ends and neither of you learns who did.
Why reveal at the same moment?
So nobody shows their hand first. It keeps things even.
What if they don't want to share a photo?
They can decline, and the match ends kindly. Nobody is told why.
What if neither of us decides?
After three days the match quietly expires, and you both move on.
Keep exploring
Your first match could be this week.
Free to join, in your browser or on iPhone. Answer at your own pace, and skip anything with “Rather not say.”