The ideas behind it
Connection comes from three things.
Lasting friendships and relationships rarely start with a great profile. They start with people who want similar things, who are at a similar point in life, and who spend time together. Zydeby is designed around all three.
Free to join. Works in your browser and on iPhone.
Example screen. Stock photos, not members.
What connection is made of
Shared direction
You want similar things from the next five or ten years: family, home, work, faith, how you spend your money and time. Matched on your goals
A similar phase of life
Kids the same age, the same kind of work week, newly retired, newly single. Shared circumstances give you plenty to talk about. Phase of life
Time together
Connection grows from doing things side by side, not from trading messages. Side by side
Everyone here made the same choice
The most important thing members have in common is that they chose this app. Everyone on Zydeby has decided they'd rather meet in person than message, and would rather find someone who fits than keep browsing.
That shared choice changes the tone of every match. Nobody is collecting matches or killing time. When you get a match, it's someone who wants what you want: a real conversation, in a real place.
Questions
Does Zydeby match on interests?
Yes, but as a supporting part. Hobbies shape your activity ideas. Goals and phase of life shape who you meet.
Is connection only about romance?
No. Friendship, small groups and mentoring are built the same way, around goals, phase of life and time together.
Keep exploring
Your first match could be this week.
Free to join, in your browser or on iPhone. Answer at your own pace, and skip anything with “Rather not say.”